Category: Tread on Trafficking


Tread on Trafficking 2012 Wrap-up

Posted on July 16th, by Hayley in Love146, Sex Trafficking, Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

Friends/Family! I exceeded my Tread on Trafficking goal this year and it’s because you guys are awesome. It’s not because I walked a whole bunch, because I lost track of my miles in early to mid June and I have no idea what my final count was. But I know you’ll forgive me since you didn’t give because of my walking but because you care about victims of sex trafficking, and because you’re awesome.

As stated above, I know you gave because you care about the work Love146 is doing all over the world. But I also know you gave to my specific campaign because you care about me to some degree, and that means a lot to me. So even though you didn’t give $550 to me personally, you did give $550 with me partly in mind, so I feel … Read More »


Faraway Neighbors

Posted on June 29th, by Hayley in Love146, Sex Trafficking, Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

For the past few years there’s been a big push to do everything locally. We’re all encouraged to buy from local retailers and eat food from local farms, and especially to support local causes and non-profit organizations. Many non-profit organizations tout on their websites and in their literature that all money raised will stay right here at home and help our neighbors. I understand the value in doing so many things locally, but I get caught up on the donation part. I know I’m supposed to help my neighbors like everyone keeps telling me to do, but who are my neighbors?

When I read on the internet about girls in southeast Asia getting abused in brothels and learn of their needs, do they become my neighbors? When I read in a magazine about women in eastern Europe getting trafficked to the … Read More »


You are precious. You are not a commodity.

Posted on June 22nd, by Hayley in Love146, Sex Trafficking, Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

The “146” part of Love146’s name comes from the number a little girl was wearing on her chest one night in a brothel. The people who would found Love146 were visiting the brothel, trying to learn more about sex trafficking. The girls that were for sale that night were behind a piece of glass. The soon-to-be rapists stood on the other side of the glass and chose which girl they wanted, indicating their choice by stating the number on her chest. Girl 146 stood out to the Love146 founders because of the fight they saw in her. You can read a more detailed and eloquent explanation of the inspiration behind Love146’s name here.

A few years after first seeing Girl 146 one of the founders of Love146, Rob Morris, was asked what he would say to that little girl then, after … Read More »


In an effort not to suck

Posted on June 4th, by Hayley in Love146, Sex Trafficking, Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

I’m still raising money for Love146 by Treading on Trafficking. I haven’t been talking about it much in real life or on the interwebs because it’s so uncomfortable to ask people for money. When I went to Love146’s conference nearly two years ago, Rob Morris, a co-founder of Love146, said a few words to the attendees at the closing of the conference. He said that when people ask what it’s going to take to end sex trafficking his answer is, “for all of us to not suck.” And I feel like I kind of suck when I’m scared off from asking people in my life to donate to help end sex trafficking because it makes me uncomfortable.

So, will you please donate to my Tread on Trafficking campaign? There are people who most definitely do not suck who need funding to … Read More »


No matter what you say, this technically counts as a post

Posted on May 22nd, by Hayley in Stuff I Made, Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

Hey! I haven’t been the best blog post-er lately because I have a couple of posts I want to write but they both require things like reading and thinking before I can write them, so that hasn’t happened yet.  So instead I’m posting this, which will involve very little reading or thinking for any of us.

First of all, I now have prints and cards available at The Onion Tree. I had some items at the store’s first location but the owner was forced to move from that location. She’s now re-opened at a new location – inside of Roots & Bloom, a wholesale flower shop near downtown Wichita. You guys, you can smell the fresh flowers from the parking lot. It’s pretty awesome. So go to The Onion Tree, look at my cards and prints and the items from other … Read More »


Tread on Trafficking 2012 – Update #1

Posted on May 9th, by Hayley in Love146, Sex Trafficking, Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

Miles Walked/Rode/Hula’ed: 10.67
Money Raised: $150

As I mentioned previously, I’m participating in Tread on Trafficking again this year. It officially started May 1, so I’m a little late in writing this post. I’m going to blame it on the pieces I was finishing for Lucinda’s and Steve Holt, our new puppy. Yes, I got Todd a puppy as an early birthday gift. Yes, I’m an awesome wife. Yes, he’s a sweet puppy, but he’s exhausting. And I’ve never talked about bowel and bladder movements so much in my life.

Here’s a picture of Steve Holt the night we brought him home, when he was called Lebron. (He had two other names before we landed on Steve Holt, but we have to stick with this one because we got an engraved dog tag at PetSmart this weekend with his name on it.)

Anyway, I’m … Read More »


Tread on Trafficking

“I got to take out what was hidden in my heart.”
– Trafficking survivor, India

Recently an aid blogger wrote about how she often gets asked what the best way is to get involved with a cause, and she answers:  give money. It doesn’t seem exciting to us here in America, but it’s what’s needed.

There are groups of smart, capable, honest people fighting good fights all over the world. But to continue to do that they need more resources, particularly money. Somebody’s money paid for the rescue operation that led to the freedom of the trafficking survivor I quoted above, and paid for the care she received afterwards that made her feel safe. That is exciting.

Love146‘s Tread on Trafficking is about to begin, and I’m going to be participating as I did last year. Some of you were very generous last year and supported me, and I … Read More »


The end

Posted on July 1st, by Hayley in Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

And so, my 60 days of forgetting to walk and begging my friends and family for money come to an end.

I raised $420, short of my goal, but still a very respectable amount. Combined, the more than 1,000 “Treaders” raised over $100,000. Quick math shows that’s an average of $100 raised per person, which means I’m above average. So just like in high school I didn’t quite meet my goals, but I came out better than a lot of other people.

But seriously, thank you very much to those of you who donated. I don’t know how to say it without sounding trite, but I really do appreciate your support. I care very deeply for the children Love146 helps, and knowing that my family, friends and acquaintances care for them as well means a lot.


This is it!

Posted on June 30th, by Hayley in Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

It’s my last day to collect money for Love 146’s Tread on Trafficking campaign. Thanks to many of you, I am very close to reaching my goal of $500. But, I’m not there yet.

Please go to bit.ly/hayleytot to donate, even if it’s only $5. Every little bit helps rehabilitate girls rescued from sex trafficking and prevent more children from enduring that form of abuse.


Tread on Trafficking Update #2

Posted on June 10th, by Hayley in Love146, Tread on Trafficking. No Comments

Day: 41
Miles Walked: 43.5
Money Raised: $260

So, I’m a little over halfway through my Tread on Trafficking campaign. As you can see from the above numbers, I’m a little over halfway to my fundraising goal of $500, and I’m a little under halfway towards my goal of walking 89 miles. I have a lot to do between now and June 30.

Why am I so far behind on my walking? Because it’s been hot, and walking is kind of boring. And I swear I’ve been pretty busy lately, but right at this moment I can’t come up with what it is that’s been keeping me so busy.

But! I am not giving up. I will make it to 89 miles by June 30. And I’d be really excited if I could also make it to $500 by June 30. I know there are … Read More »